Initial, am vrut sa traduc acest text in limba romana. Am ajuns pana la jumatate si, mi-am dat seama ca suna PROST. Nu suna cum trebuie. Nu arata bine. Nu era „textul”.

Asa ca, o sa fac o exceptie si o pun pe Pandora’s, pentru prima si ultima oara, un text in limba engleza.

Cu mentiunea ca e cel mai bun sfat, cel mai bun indemn, cea mai buna idee, daca vreti sa ramaneti intr-o relatie minunata cu voi insiva. E drept, nu e si USOR. Asta e problema, ca nu e usor.

Scuze, nu se va mai intampla alta data.

„To let go isn’t to forget or ignore. It doesn’t leave feelings of jealousy, or regret. Letting go isn’t about winning or losing. It’s not about pride. Letting go isn’t blocking memories or thinking sad thoughts, and doesn’t leave emptiness, hurt, or sadness. It’s not about giving in or giving up. Letting go isn’t about loss and it’s not about defeat. To let go is to move on. It is having an open mind & confidence in the future. Letting go is learning and experiencing and growing. To let go is to be thankful for the experiences that made you laugh, made you cry, and made you grow. It’s about all that you have, all that you had, and all that you will soon gain. Letting go is having the courage to accept change, and the strength to keep moving. Letting go is growing up. It is realizing that the heart can sometimes be the most potent remedy. To let go is to open a door, and to clear a path and set yourself free.”

Ps. Self-esteem ul se recastiga greu, odata pierdut, asa ca fiti atenti (na! Ca mai spun si eu din experientele proprii, cred ca e folositor! Nu permiteti sa fiti anulati ca oameni, pentru ca va fi dificil, daca ganditi si aveti capul pe umeri, sa va ridicati ). Cel mai important pentru noi, ca indivizi, e acest self esteem. De aici porneste (uneori) totul. Iar prostia, mai ales a noastra fata de noi insine, dauneaza grav